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Bystander Effect: Image of a college dorm
Life

The Bystander Effect: The time it happened to me

There was a time I personally experienced the Bystander Effect. Keep reading. It’s a heckuva story. Trigger warning: If you’ve been bullied, this piece may make you anxious. My sophomore year of college, Jake and Wilbur lived in the same dorm as me, on the same floor.  Since they both sported buzz cuts the color

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Scotland At Last: photo of group of adults at happy hour in Applecross Scotland
Life

Scotland: At Last (A his and hers adventure)

“Better late than never,” as they say.  In May 2022, my husband and I, and four other couples, finally made it to Scotland for a couples’ whisky tasting tour originally scheduled for 2020. I’d visited Scotland twice before, along with three of the women on this trip. Because both trips were fantastic, we decided to

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A day in the life of a US election worker: image of a woman in red white and blue
Life

A day in the Life of a US Election Worker (Helping you vote was my pleasure.)

It’s Amy’s fault. My next-door-neighbor. She’s why I worked this year’s election. Earlier this fall, she posted on Facebook an article about being a US poll worker in the 2020 presidential election.  The thought sent a thrill through the middle of my chest. “I’m doing it!” I crowed at her from my backyard later that day.

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Everything Belongs: Image of a theater marquis saying: The World Is Temporarily Closed
Life

Everything Belongs: Best practices for when life sucks (over and over)

Upon occasion, when a string of life sucks circumstances has happened one after another to me and/or my loved ones, I’ve referred to that period of time as a “Job Season.” I think most people would agree: This entire year (2020) has been a “Job Season.” Just when we think things might be looking up,

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Positivity 101: Sign saying : Change Your Mindset
Life

Positivity 101: (aka–How to live life with more happiness and joy.)

Earlier this year, my writer friend, Brittney, messaged me with a blog post request: something on positivity, please. “How do you manage to stay so positive in a time when many people are very focused on the negative?” My positivity process is not difficult. But it’s not simple either. It’s not a one word, one

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Fundamentalism
Family

Fundamentalism (It’s not just for religion anymore.)

The Fundamentals of Fundamentalism Many folks associate “fundamentalism” with religion. As in this definition from dictionary.com: “a religious movement characterized by a strict belief in the literal interpretation of religious texts, especially within American Protestantism and Islam.” Recently I heard an interesting theory. That the term “fundamentalism” can actually refer to several subject areas, not

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Getting Laid Off
Life

Getting Laid Off: The Up Sides (There are at least 5.)

Guest Post by Eva Steortz Getting laid off at any age is no fun. Yet from my experience, I can promise you there are truly incredible benefits possible from this major life disruption. Even if you are downsized from what you believe to be your dream job, life can absolutely continue to get better. Don’t believe

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Life

A Travel Log of Iceland: Ice, Ice(land) Baby

On September 7, 2019, 10 ladies flew over the Atlantic Ocean to see what they could see. In Iceland. Joan’s Perspective:  Never has a country been more aptly named than Iceland, the land of fire and ice. Both extremes were beautifully evident at every location we traveled. It is a land of extremes and of contradictions. The heated

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