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Thanksgiving Story: image of woman with a roasted turkey
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(Pilgrims’) Progress Report

Looking back, it’s a blur, a filmy orange streak. Thanksgiving Day 2012, that is.  I thought I was ready, that this would be the year I’d achieve my goal. I didn’t want much, just to get all the food on the table at the same time. At the appropriate temperature. I was on track, too,

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Scotland Revisited: Image of the Qu'raing on the Isle of Skye.
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Scotland Revisited (Highlights from the Scottish Highlands–2018)

Last month I flew with friends to Scotland. Again. This time eight ladies traveled instead of 10, half of them recruited by me. Like before, after leaving the Inverness airport, we drove to two castles. The first was Urquhart Castle at Loch Ness. The ruins—remains of a wall and stone turrets on a patch of lush

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When the end is near: Image of a tunnel with light on other side
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Death 102: When the end is near (or here)

Twenty-one days ago, my mother passed away.  The moment was beautiful—peaceful and holy— and I am so thankful I was with her. Mom’s death served as the final exam for a course I’ve been taking for at least a year now, Death 102: When the end is near (or here). Below, you’ll find my notes from the

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Messy House: Image of messy dining room
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Levels, Shame, and Joy… Oh, my! (Aka: Bless this messy house.)

To Do List Clean (really clean) the first level Straighten the second level Bank Gas Consignment Shop Pick up coffee beans at Quantum Bean Drop tin of cookies (with note) at Blatter house Dear Mr. and Mrs. Blatter: I’m writing to apologize… For the time I wouldn’t let you use the bathroom in our house

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Mother Daughter: Image of my mother and me sitting on her sofa.
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Daughter Dearest (aka, Rest in Peace, Janet Joy)

One day during my lunch hour in downtown Cincinnati—I lived and worked there in the 80’s—as I walked toward Fountain Square, two gals came at me, arm in arm. The younger woman’s grin was the spitting image of her mom’s. When I stepped in front of them, they stopped walking and talking, their limbs suddenly stiff, their eyes

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Death 101: Image of Lake of the Woods at sunset
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Death 101: The Art of Dying (as taught by Atul Gawande…and my mother)

I’ve come a long way, baby. From being the scarediest of cats about so many things. High bridges, for instance. And death. For the longest time, my parents sheltered my brothers and me from post-mortem matters. It wasn’t until the eighth grade that I attended a funeral, my paternal grandfather’s. In the back of the

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Loneliness: Image of a girl alone in her bedroom
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How to Win a Wrestling Match (with Loneliness)

Confession: I stockpile Facebook statuses. Hey, don’t judge me. My ammo pile of cleverness is for your benefit. My goal always being to educate, inspire, and/or amuse you. There is, however, one status I was too chicken to post: ”Don’t feel sorry for me, but I’m lonely.” From time to time, posts like this appear

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